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Even if you have the world’s worst relationship with the person who shares your children’s DNA, here’s how to get your ex helping if you’re a divorced parent
When she’s hanging out with him instead of coming home after school, divorced parents need to band together
“I don’t care!” screamed my friend’s daughter into her cellphone. “I’m with my friends and I’m not coming home and you can’t do anything about it!” (For more about the dangers of cellphone use for teens, see this story).
My friend’s daughter was 14, too old to be dragged home by the hair, however tempting. So my friend did a brave thing: she asked for help from the ex with whom she’d had an acrimonious separation just a couple of years before.
While the circumstances of your breakup may have soured your relationship with your ex, consider putting aside your anger for the sake of the children. Not only because this kind of bitterness can corrode their own positive feelings for both parents, but because, much as you hate to admit it, you need their help.
My friend certainly did. After she got her ex on board, her daughter stopped being able to bounce from one parent to the other, taking advantage of weak points in each one’s rules. And because they communicated, she couldn’t cover long stays at the mall by pretending she’d gone to Dad’s house. So how did my friend do it?
Want more tips? See these five secrets for handling teen rebellion from Canada’s Parent.